Wednesday in India

Our first day in India had some twists and turns. We met with Dr. Rajagopal (Raj) at the clinic and the early afternoon and met our interpreter Sajiv. Everyone here has been so lovely and helpful. We’ve had to adjust our schedule a bit due to some “hiccups,” as Raj put it. The President is visiting Trivandrum Wednesday and Thursday so there are some road blocks around town, there’s a bank holiday Thursday, and a political strike on Friday. We’re not all together sure what the political strike entails. Raj said that the city usually shuts down but hospitals stay open. 

So, yesterday, we went to a local beach and did a few man-on-the-street interviews. The setting was very cool – waves crashing, sun setting, kids playing the beach, fishing boats. Everyone was really willing to talk to us. People actually gathered around while we were doing the interview. Even better, a local news station was there and filmed us doing our interviews. Claire and WIlson were both interviewed. We think we’re going to be on the news today and in the newspaper. Here are some photos.

Beach Interview

Beach Crowd

Claire’s Interview

Wilson’s Interview

Today, we’re going to a rural village to do some home visits with Raj and his team. This afternoon, we’ll do more man-on-the-street interviews at a local museum.

Our Last Night in Tokyo: A Traditional Japanese Meal

After a long, successful day of filming at the Wellness Community, Kenichi and Nanako kindly  took us out to a traditional Japanese meal. It was very fancy and quite a treat – eight courses. The place they took us seemed to be reserved for special occasions. Here’s an overview of our experience.

Course #1: Raw fish and marinated plum. I liked it. Wilson just said: “define like.” No photo for this one.
Course #2: Whole fried baby fish (eye intact) with baby bamboo and seaweed wrapped in tofu skin. All eyes were on Wilson. Nanoko was encouraging him to take a little bite. He managed a bite of the tail. When he did this, Nanako screamed, “Ouch!” I didn’t try it. 
Course #3: Raw beef sushi for everyone else, tuna for me. 
Course #4: Raw squid and fish on ice. We all ate the fish, which was good. We also tried one piece of squid each. Wow! The experience of trying to eat the squid was a rough one. It was super chewy yet pasty and sticky. Wilson thought there might be tape in it. I thought it tasted like paste. We chewed that one piece for over five minutes but it just wouldn’t get smaller. Finally, we all just swallowed it with a big gulp of water. 
Course #5: Tempura fried veggies and fish
Course #6: Soup with full-bodied sea life. This one had a wee octopus in it floating around. At one point, Wilson said,  ”Guys, I got to be honest. I don’t think I can do this.” I couldn’t do it either. We both drank some broth though.
Course #7: Beef for everyone, shrimp for me. We all agreed this was very good but Claire and Wilson said the beef was very rich.
Course #8: Dessert.  Yahoo! Wilson had fruit and some jellied thing. The rest of us had the jelly too but also soy bean ice cream.  

Course #2

Course #2 – Fish Profile

Course #3 – Beef

Course #4 – Das Squid

Course #5

Course #6 – Wee Octopus

Course #7 – Shrimp

Course #7 – Beef

Course #8

Japan Crew

Lovely Nanako

Eek…A Wee Octopus

On the cab ride home, we talked about what was going through our heads throughout the dinner.
- Claire: “I can do this, I can do this, I can do this.”
- Wilson: “Am I on Survivor? Where are the hidden cameras?”
- Anne: “Be brave, be gracious, be brave, be gracious, be really brave.” 

It was a truly amazing, one-of-a-kind experience – fun and memorable with wonderful new friends. We got to try so many different and new kinds of food. A real treat! Claire was the trooper and ate everything. Way to represent, Claire!!

Monday in Tokyo

I’m writing from Trivandrum, India. We arrived late last night after more than 20 hours of traveling. Sheesh! We flew from Tokyo to Singapore, had a several hour layover, and then took a second flight into Trivandrum. We’re staying at an amazing bed and breakfast -  Graceful Homestay. I’ll post photos of our current home later. We’ll be doing some interviews here during our stay. Our last day in Tokyo was a good one. We interviewed two cancer survivors in the morning – Mr. and Mrs. Endo (prostate cancer) and Mrs. Saito (kidney cancer). They both had amazing stories.

When Mr. Endo found out that he had cancer, he didn’t tell anyone (not even his wife). He just did a lot of research so he could learn more about the disease. He didn’t want to have surgery so he found several institutes in the US that offered proton therapy. He booked two tickets to the states and told his wife when they arrived why they were actually there. He told us that more people in Japan are just starting to share their cancer story with others. Wilson filmed Mr. Endo and several other cancer survivors in a Prostate Cancer Support Group earlier in the morning. Mr. Endo said they had a newcomer who was very anxious to learn what everyone else had done regarding treatment. At the end of the interview he said, “Unity is strength, knowledge is power, and attitude is everything.”

When Mrs. Saito was diagnosed, she told her family and thought that her husband would be able to support her emotionally but it was too much for him (though he supported her financially). While she did get support from her friends and children, she decided that she had the strength to get through this by herself. (We’ve heard a lot about inner strength in Japan). Since her diagnosis, she started to appreciate every moment in life – whether it was good or bad. She had an amazing attitude.

After those interviews, we went to a yoga session for cancer survivors (one of the Wellness Community’s programs). Wilson shot the session. In the middle of the session, the instructor turned up the heat in the room. Needless to say, it was toasty in there and Wilson came out glistening. It’s possible he lost a pound or two. When the class was over, we asked each of the women a couple of questions about their cancer experience as well as perception of cancer in Japan. In total, we spoke to 35 people in Japan about cancer. 

We went back to the Wellness community to interview Kenichi (their program director) and got some footage of him running a support group through an Internet chat program they sponsor. It’s similar to Second Life. Each person can design their own character. The online support group took place in an outside setting with each person sitting on a bench in a circle. Kenichi said that the program had been very successful for them and that people are much more open about their experience since it’s all anonymous. Here are some photos from the day. 

Mrs. Saito

Cancer Survivors at Yoga Studo

Wilson at Yoga Studio

Kenichi’s Interview